WHAT REALLY MATTERS

 Every day we survive on the Earth is due to the culmination of the right and the wrong choices in a blend together. Every choice teaches an appropriate lesson for us to get enlightened for the next time. When you go out on the road, there is a myriad of emotions on each face. Every face has a story behind it, all of them represent the result of the choices they made throughout the day. Whatever choice we make, demands our efforts to be put into it. What really matters is where, how, and why we stress our efforts on.

The three questions need to be answered. 

WHERE:

Efforts are like elixir, anyone can consume it if given the chance but only a selected few are deserving enough to have it. In the same way, everyone can enjoy your efforts but not all of them deserve even a bit of it. Every person has a spirit animal, no I'm not talking about their zodiac; every person is a chameleon, and the spirit animal next. We should figure out and segregate these chameleons first and then give out the efforts to the ones who deserve it. 

HOW:

The efforts we put in might be either subliminal or explicit, they matter. So, whichever way we put in the efforts, we should not put our mental stability or even physical capability at stake in most cases. They are worth keeping at stake only if the person on the receiving end is dear to us and seeing them happy is worth the efforts. There are this certain magically healing abilities or maybe it's even therapeutic to see the ones we care about be happy; for the sake of that vision, no matter how many and much efforts we make seem or is worth it.

WHY: 

When we realize the where and how aspects of this question, the WHY seems quite simple. Whenever you want to put in efforts on or over someone, just put a hand on your heart and look up and close your eyes. If at all your heart seems a Lil bit shaky when thinking about the situation then don't do it. My heart is as stable and clear as a flowing river when I choose the right place to put my efforts in. As I always believe, listen to your heart only when it's pumping genuine feelings and your mind when your heart is only pumping blood and isn't capable enough to pump feelings. 

No one deserves Your efforts, Your Time, and Your attention until and unless You deem them worthy enough to be. So, choose the best place to invest them in and my advice is never to indulge in an investment until there is a return on investment surety. At the end of the day, your efforts are like a sword, you should decide whether you want to use them to pierce someone's heart that disappoints them or kneel the sword before that someone that is sworn your loyalty to them.