PERSONALITY AND THE PERSON'S Reality

The World is vast and so is the amount of personality traits in each one. The permutations and combinations of each trait and their proportions draws the differing line between the individuals. These quantifying and classifying attributes are all ever changing according to the current society that is running the world. However, the detrimental factor of any person is how they present their personality and never about what they truly think, the simple reason being that thoughts are better to be heard and deeds are best to be felt.

Qualities aren't the only determining factor for an individual's personality. It is also about how they approach that to suit the unwritten requirements set by either a society or another individual. A major influencing factor for anyone's persona is their relatability that they associate with the people of their life. They think that the more relatable one gets to their miseries and memories is the one who will be better understanding both to reminisce about their past and predict their future. This has become one of the most toxic points of view in the recent past.

Everyone who is in need of help, they all are trying to help each other under the pretense of relatability and messing themselves further. They might have been going through or have gone through something doesn't mean they have solved it now. They will only tell you stuff that they rather would have done in their past but it need not be the right thing to do. They might feel good to be talking to, doesn't mean they are talking the right things. Break the conception that lil experience more than you is a major breakthrough.

Another such palpable trait relevant at the moment is how people approach love. People we love initially enjoy having conversations with us because they feel included which we strive to do, so as to make an impression of us in their mind to strengthen our bond and as the conversations evolve, they start becoming less about them and more about our own personality dealing with something and trying to garner their validation for it. This paradigm is difficult to adjust to especially for people who haven't seen much diaspora of the people that exist in the wide world. The world is a difficult place to live in and the easy way out is to pretend that we know how to exist. 

To conclude, the personality of a person is a hard way to gauge their true intention and it is also wise to keep in mind the fact that masks are readily available in the current society and experiences alone doesn't make them worthy enough of your emotional expressions. Reality is just expectations set to high power and exceptions accountability set to low. We never know what is to come, neither do we forget what had come that changed us to what we are. So live and die in your own skin instead of running after the ones shed by your so-called personalities.