ETIQUETTE FOR DELIGHT IN LIFE

If I have to tell what life is in a nutshell, it is the experiences and memories people bring in and share with us and the ones they make with us and leave. There needs to be a healthy proportion of the two to lead a stable happy life. Even a slight imbalance will change the whole dynamics of our mental state, which is especially true with some significant few in this vast life of ours. For a person to maintain a healthy relationship between the two, we should fundamentally follow a few things which are not just useful for this case but to lead a truthful and honest life to the society and to ourselves when we look back at it on the deathbed.

 

FAKE PROMISES RIDDANCE:

This is a very toxic culture, primarily emerging in our generation. Whenever someone dear to us has a difficulty in dealing with a situation, we go out of our ways to start apologizing to them for not being there and then proceed to add in this very stupid promise of being there the next time around that they are to face this particular situation. Geez! We appreciate the concern you are showing but what would make it a bit more useful is removing this fake promise and adding in a tad bit of sensibility and making them understand the situation they are in and how exactly can they solve it on their own. You are spoiling their actual potential to solve an issue on their own in the hope of attempting to make them feel better right now. If you comfort them, you will only make them sleep better tonight but not face the situation better the next day.    

 

COMMUNICATION:

Lemme just get to the point straight, with the aging of social media the gap between the texts of people is enlarging. I don’t even know where this strange egoistic logic we formed in our heads to reply to people texting us only after the time that they took to reply to us passed by. This surely might not be the only reason for the diminishing circle of people in our lives but it definitely adds up. People will form this impression on us that we might not be reachable when it is most needed. The communication gap is the major reason for most of the urban day bonds to perish.

 

TIME SPARING:

People talk about time management all the time, allot this much time for something and that much for something else. Being productive is very nice but the by-product of high productivity is mental turmoil. We must keep taking it out in every opportunity we get or else it will all clog up and mess us up with unnecessary thoughts. The same goes for the other person too, so the best way to take out our turmoil is to mutually spare each other time. It takes a lot of courage to voice thoughts and when you can do that with each other, you can reconcile the bond, have their back, and most importantly clear your own head in the process.

 

To conclude, the bonds we make are bipolar and need the extreme level of both sides to be healthy and functional. Educate your loved ones instead of instilling fake promises into them. If you do that, the next time they face a situation, they won’t be looking at the other side waiting for you rather they’ll be looking into that issue and try solving it. Think of how to spare time for others in place of making up excuses to enjoy solitaire. SOLITAIRE IS ONLY A PAIN KILLER AND NOT AN ANTIDOTE.